Tonya Ames

My name is Tonya Ames. I live in Dover New Hampshire and work as a registered nurse in Somersworth New Hampshire. In 2021 I lost my 16 year old son Andre to Suicide. Andre was to most people "always happy, singing and dancing", "the kindest friend and teammate that made everyone feel welcomed". Unfortunately he also struggled with deep depression. Suicide is the second leading cause of death in New Hampshire for youth ages 10 to 24. Too many young lives are being lost, and suicide is preventable. Early identification, education, and intervention are proven tools to save lives. HB 1635, as currently written, ensures that school personnel are trained to recognize warning signs and respond effectively, creating safer environments for students. Any changes to this bill would weaken these protections and put young people at greater risk. Limited staff at my son's school had been trained in signs of suicide. I feel had the whole staff, including coaches for sports, been trained then more would have been able to talk with Andre or myself about his changes in behavior. Students spend much of their time in school and at sports, placing educators and staff in a unique position to notice warning signs and take action. Clear, consistent training provides the guidance and confidence needed to act quickly and appropriately. Weakening the bill jeopardizes the safety of our youth. I strongly urge the committee to reject all proposed changes to HB 1635 and uphold the bill as written. Our children deserve strong, consistent, and proven suicide prevention measures in every school. Thank you for your time and for your commitment to protecting New Hampshire’s youth. Sincerely, Tonya Ames, MSN, APRN 603-512-3331